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		<title>Comment on Allow a Happy 2012 &#8211; take it lightly by Mary K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 04:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Marrie! I agree... a Part 2 does seem called for.
And I took care of that closing parenthesis :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Marrie! I agree&#8230; a Part 2 does seem called for.<br />
And I took care of that closing parenthesis :)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Allow a Happy 2012 &#8211; take it lightly by Marrie Cohen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marrie Cohen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2012 10:40:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Funny video, I think it actually summarize all of us date nights.
I would like to see Part2 that involves the babysitter.

Great read, just remember to correct the end of the &quot;(&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Funny video, I think it actually summarize all of us date nights.<br />
I would like to see Part2 that involves the babysitter.</p>
<p>Great read, just remember to correct the end of the &#8220;(&#8220;.<br />
<span class="cluv">Marrie Cohen´s last [type] ..<a class="aa238e100a 4770" href="http://www.wsd.co.il">בניית אתרים</a></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on 8 Skills Every Teen Needs by Linda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 10:50:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These are really good skills to have but almost no one knows them anymore. Thanks for sharing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are really good skills to have but almost no one knows them anymore. Thanks for sharing!<br />
<span class="cluv">Linda´s last [type] ..<a class="b5e1eeceb9 4570" href="http://www.goedkoperparkerenschiphol.nl/">schiphol parkeren</a></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Too Full for Broccoli by online alisveris</title>
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		<dc:creator>online alisveris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 11:17:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>veryy good</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>veryy good</p>
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		<title>Comment on 8 Skills Every Teen Needs by Peter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 10:58:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These are some really useful skills to know. A lot of people or kids really don&#039;t know some basic stuff that they really need to know. They don&#039;t know the basic stuff because a lot of them are spoiled and so they become lazy. Thanks for sharing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are some really useful skills to know. A lot of people or kids really don&#8217;t know some basic stuff that they really need to know. They don&#8217;t know the basic stuff because a lot of them are spoiled and so they become lazy. Thanks for sharing!<br />
<span class="cluv">Peter´s last [type] ..<a class="2716953ae0 4527" href="http://www.abconferencecall.com">Conference call</a></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Rules for Being Human by Mary K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 00:17:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Noreen. I&#039;ve always loved that particular list</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Noreen. I&#8217;ve always loved that particular list</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mom and Dad, It&#8217;s okay to change your mind by Clare Kirkpatrick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clare Kirkpatrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 10:16:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love this post! Resonates with me so much and is similar to a post I made on my blog last week about &#039;stubborn parents&#039;: http://freeyourparenting.com/2011/10/14/stubborn-parents-taking-children-seriously-non-coercive-parenting-consensual/ 

Am now following your lovely blog - found it via Sausage Mama :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love this post! Resonates with me so much and is similar to a post I made on my blog last week about &#8216;stubborn parents&#8217;: <a href="http://freeyourparenting.com/2011/10/14/stubborn-parents-taking-children-seriously-non-coercive-parenting-consensual/">http://freeyourparenting.com/2011/10/14/stubborn-parents-taking-children-seriously-non-coercive-parenting-consensual/</a> </p>
<p>Am now following your lovely blog &#8211; found it via Sausage Mama :)<br />
<span class="cluv">Clare Kirkpatrick´s last [type] ..<a class="50e5b9401f 3708" href="http://freeyourparenting.com/2011/10/19/parenting-judgement-guilt/">Parenting, judgement &amp; guilt</a></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on How a Physician cured her son&#8217;s autism by Mary K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2011 04:24:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your comment, Susan! I&#039;ve always thought there was a link too... and Dr. Mercola site is wonderful!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comment, Susan! I&#8217;ve always thought there was a link too&#8230; and Dr. Mercola site is wonderful!</p>
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		<title>Comment on How a Physician cured her son&#8217;s autism by Susan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2011 10:37:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a fabulous article. I have always believed there was some kind of dietary link to autism and brain related problems in young kids. It&#039;s fascinating to see some formal science and measuring applied to try and prove it. Thanks for the intro to mercola.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a fabulous article. I have always believed there was some kind of dietary link to autism and brain related problems in young kids. It&#8217;s fascinating to see some formal science and measuring applied to try and prove it. Thanks for the intro to mercola.com<br />
<span class="cluv">Susan´s last [type] ..<a class="1467a5bf5f 3478" href="http://kidsbabystrollers.com/kolcraft-contours-lite-stroller-a-review/">Kolcraft Contours Lite Stroller – A Review</a></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to get through life :-) by Allegro.pl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allegro.pl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Aug 2011 17:34:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Youre so cool! I dont suppose Ive read anything like this before. So nice to find somebody with some original thoughts on this subject. realy thank you for starting this up. this website is something that is needed on the web, someone with a little originality. useful job for bringing something new to the internet!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Youre so cool! I dont suppose Ive read anything like this before. So nice to find somebody with some original thoughts on this subject. realy thank you for starting this up. this website is something that is needed on the web, someone with a little originality. useful job for bringing something new to the internet!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Changing Schools, Changing Behavior by Mary K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 20:14:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kim! Thanks for your comment..

We have quite a few charter schools here in MN that are actively striving, and many with good results, to support these notions. Though of course, there are some &#039;within the system&#039; parameters that they must follow... yet most of those compliance&#039;s don&#039;t affect the kids directly. If I was seeking a high school today and didn&#039;t have a GOOD selection of physical Charter Schools to look at I&#039;d definitely search for a virtual high school online or consider homeschooling. What kind of choices are you looking at in your area?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kim! Thanks for your comment..</p>
<p>We have quite a few charter schools here in MN that are actively striving, and many with good results, to support these notions. Though of course, there are some &#8216;within the system&#8217; parameters that they must follow&#8230; yet most of those compliance&#8217;s don&#8217;t affect the kids directly. If I was seeking a high school today and didn&#8217;t have a GOOD selection of physical Charter Schools to look at I&#8217;d definitely search for a virtual high school online or consider homeschooling. What kind of choices are you looking at in your area?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Changing Schools, Changing Behavior by Kim McNally</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim McNally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 12:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am totally onboard with your comments. The challenge, however, is are there any schools you are aware of (anywhere in the world) that support this notion and have created their own methods outside of the &#039;system&#039;.
Please help we are seeking highschools :) cheers Kim</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am totally onboard with your comments. The challenge, however, is are there any schools you are aware of (anywhere in the world) that support this notion and have created their own methods outside of the &#8216;system&#8217;.<br />
Please help we are seeking highschools :) cheers Kim</p>
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		<title>Comment on Every Child a &#8216;Special Needs&#8217; Child by Mary K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 16:17:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen, Sister! :-) So well said, Rachel.

And thanks for bringing me back to this one, Rachel. It&#039;s always interesting to me how quickly and easily we can become blind to the obvious... and pretend that something else is so. Oh, we often start out with the best of intentions... yet frequently in our efforts to serve some targeted group that is perceived by educators (for reasons both simple and complex) as &#039;disadvantaged&#039; we lose sight of the truth.

For instance, yesterday I found myself in the city passing an Elementary School. They had a big banner across the the front of the building that said:

&quot;If You Don&#039;t Show Up, You Can&#039;t Learn&quot;

Now I understand this school is in an area of the city that suffers sketchy attendance and high drop out rates and their intention was probably to encourage attendance...

Yet didn&#039;t occur to anyone in the school system that what that banner says is PATENTLY UNTRUE??? Humans, of ALL ages, are ALWAYS learning! &quot;Learning&quot; is virtually interchangeable with &quot;growth&quot;. 

Ahhh... I can feel another post coming on... LOL

Thanks so much Rachel - I am equally happy to have found YOU! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen, Sister! :-) So well said, Rachel.</p>
<p>And thanks for bringing me back to this one, Rachel. It&#8217;s always interesting to me how quickly and easily we can become blind to the obvious&#8230; and pretend that something else is so. Oh, we often start out with the best of intentions&#8230; yet frequently in our efforts to serve some targeted group that is perceived by educators (for reasons both simple and complex) as &#8216;disadvantaged&#8217; we lose sight of the truth.</p>
<p>For instance, yesterday I found myself in the city passing an Elementary School. They had a big banner across the the front of the building that said:</p>
<p>&#8220;If You Don&#8217;t Show Up, You Can&#8217;t Learn&#8221;</p>
<p>Now I understand this school is in an area of the city that suffers sketchy attendance and high drop out rates and their intention was probably to encourage attendance&#8230;</p>
<p>Yet didn&#8217;t occur to anyone in the school system that what that banner says is PATENTLY UNTRUE??? Humans, of ALL ages, are ALWAYS learning! &#8220;Learning&#8221; is virtually interchangeable with &#8220;growth&#8221;. </p>
<p>Ahhh&#8230; I can feel another post coming on&#8230; LOL</p>
<p>Thanks so much Rachel &#8211; I am equally happy to have found YOU! :)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Benevolently Spoiled by Mary K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 15:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks so much for your comment Rachel!

I&#039;m not so sure I&#039;d go as far as saying we were &#039;better off&#039; - yet I strongly feel we can incorporate the &#039;new&#039; without tossing out valuable, proven, natural methods and materials. In my humble opinion, our social organization has reached some absurdly rigid proportions... and is bound to collapse on us.

And I&#039;ll tell you what... should we ever experience, for whatever reason, an extended period of &#039;blackout&#039; where current power sources fail, it will likely be the kid who can tie his shoes who will &#039;win the race&#039;! Yet I also know that we human&#039;s are very creative and capable of making some amazing intuitive leaps... so all really is... always and forever... well! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much for your comment Rachel!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not so sure I&#8217;d go as far as saying we were &#8216;better off&#8217; &#8211; yet I strongly feel we can incorporate the &#8216;new&#8217; without tossing out valuable, proven, natural methods and materials. In my humble opinion, our social organization has reached some absurdly rigid proportions&#8230; and is bound to collapse on us.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;ll tell you what&#8230; should we ever experience, for whatever reason, an extended period of &#8216;blackout&#8217; where current power sources fail, it will likely be the kid who can tie his shoes who will &#8216;win the race&#8217;! Yet I also know that we human&#8217;s are very creative and capable of making some amazing intuitive leaps&#8230; so all really is&#8230; always and forever&#8230; well! :)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Every Child a &#8216;Special Needs&#8217; Child by Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 07:39:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So true, Mary.

No one is perfect. Everyone has a uneven neurological profile: we all have strengths and weaknesses in various areas, regardless of how &quot;smart&quot; we are.

There are days that I see kids who are so depressed and frustrated because they don&#039;t fit into society&#039;s definition of success. The worse thing about it is, these kids are sometimes very successful in several other areas, but the adults around them seem to have forgotten that success in school does not predict life success.

Kind of reminds of that book &quot;All I need to know I learned in Kindergarten.&quot;

P.S. I love your site Mary! So happy to have found a like-minded thinker!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So true, Mary.</p>
<p>No one is perfect. Everyone has a uneven neurological profile: we all have strengths and weaknesses in various areas, regardless of how &#8220;smart&#8221; we are.</p>
<p>There are days that I see kids who are so depressed and frustrated because they don&#8217;t fit into society&#8217;s definition of success. The worse thing about it is, these kids are sometimes very successful in several other areas, but the adults around them seem to have forgotten that success in school does not predict life success.</p>
<p>Kind of reminds of that book &#8220;All I need to know I learned in Kindergarten.&#8221;</p>
<p>P.S. I love your site Mary! So happy to have found a like-minded thinker!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Benevolently Spoiled by Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 07:20:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How absolutely true, Mary.

Sometimes I get the feeling that with all the texting, iPhones, iPads, and everything else, we were better off when things were less &quot;developed.&quot;

I ran across a study that said that more children can manage an iPhone than tie their shoes! The argument was whether or not tying your shoes counts as a life-skill anymore...what do you think?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How absolutely true, Mary.</p>
<p>Sometimes I get the feeling that with all the texting, iPhones, iPads, and everything else, we were better off when things were less &#8220;developed.&#8221;</p>
<p>I ran across a study that said that more children can manage an iPhone than tie their shoes! The argument was whether or not tying your shoes counts as a life-skill anymore&#8230;what do you think?</p>
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		<title>Comment on When your teen threatens to leave&#8230; by transformer games</title>
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		<dc:creator>transformer games</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2011 11:59:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>quite intriguing post</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>quite intriguing post</p>
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		<title>Comment on Benevolently Spoiled by Mary K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2011 22:14:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know EXACTLY what you mean Julieanne! How wonderful for the kids and how much different life would be as we became clear-headed adults deliberately creating what we truly want! Ahhhh... Thanks for dropping by :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know EXACTLY what you mean Julieanne! How wonderful for the kids and how much different life would be as we became clear-headed adults deliberately creating what we truly want! Ahhhh&#8230; Thanks for dropping by :)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Benevolently Spoiled by Julieanne van Zyl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julieanne van Zyl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2011 21:49:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Imagine how wonderful the world would be, if that were how children were brought up!  We adults wouldn&#039;t be confused along the way and would know exactly how to get what we want!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Imagine how wonderful the world would be, if that were how children were brought up!  We adults wouldn&#8217;t be confused along the way and would know exactly how to get what we want!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Benevolently Spoiled by Mary K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2011 18:31:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And &quot;abe-ish&quot; is a VERY happy way to live!!! :) Thanks Pat!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And &#8220;abe-ish&#8221; is a VERY happy way to live!!! :) Thanks Pat!</p>
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